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March 18 - Family Night

FAMILY NIGHT – WEDNESDAY NIGHT ACTIVITIES

God has created the home as one of the most important places of ministry. Scripture shows that God has entrusted parents as the primary disciple-makers in the life of a child. To come alongside of parents in this task, we push pause on our regular Wednesday Night Activities for intentional time together. Our hope is that this would be an evening filled with enjoyment of one another as you focus on the good gift that our heavenly Father has provided.

Below you will find a few ideas to help guide your evening.

#1: Be together
Try to remove as many distractions as possible for the evening by making the evening screen-free. The goal is to create an atmosphere where we are present with one another and with the Lord. 

#2: Eat together
We see woven throughout Scripture the importance of meals. The meal does not need to be complicated. Simpler means may serve a better purpose! The important part is sitting down and eating together.

To direct conversation, you might consider asking each person to answer these three questions:
High – What was the best part of your day?
Low – What was the hardest part of your day?
Unexpected – What was something surprising or fun that happened today?

#3: Pray together
Take a few moments to thank God in prayer. If possible, we encourage the father to lead the prayer. If needed, use the prayer below.

Prayer:
Father, thank you for our family and for this evening that you have given. Please help us to grow in our love for you and for one another. Create in us a gratitude for salvation through your Son, Jesus. It is in His name we pray, amen.

#4: Read Scripture together
Below are suggested Scripture and discussion questions that can be used to facilitate the time depending upon the season of your home.

Families with young children
Read Psalm 136:1-3 and talk about the follow questions:
Who does this verse tell us is good?
How long does God’s love last?
What can we thank God for?

Families with older children or teenagers
Read Psalm 127 and talk about the follow questions:
What does this passage say about God’s role in our homes?
Why do you think children are like “arrows in the hand of a warrior”?
What is one way we can honor God in our home this week?

Couples, groups, or individuals
Read Colossians 3:12–17 and talk about the following questions:
How can we “put on” the virtues that are listed? 
Is there a particular quality from these verses that you feel you need to grow in? 
What kind of relationships are these verses describing?

#5: Enjoy together
Enjoy the rest of the evening with a fun activity such as a board game.

Fasting Guide & Sample Ballot

The Lord is on the move and has immensely blessed our church numerically. We celebrate this blessing and praise God for it as Stockham Community Church has become home for many people. This growth means more individuals are hearing and growing in the gospel. It has propelled us to consider how to faithfully steward the gospel in our church and area. We are hungry to see not only the church grow wider in number but deeper in following Jesus. We want to be a church that gathers in order to scatter to our neighborhoods and send to the nations. Because of that, our facility must not be seen as a landing spot, but a launching pad. As we have experienced the Lord’s blessing in numbers, we have sought the Lord’s will for stewarding for spiritual depth. For the last two years, we, as a church, have been asking the Lord to reveal to us His desired vision. This seeking of the Lord’s will has led us to a fast and feast.

On December 15, we will hold a congregational vote as to whether the best way to steward the gospel in our area is to expand our current facility. We desire for the Lord to make clear what His will is so that we can continue to be faithful servants who make disciples as Jesus commanded in Matthew 28. In preparation for the vote, we are calling for a congregational fast. Throughout the Bible, fasting was done in order to prepare for major decisions or to seek the wisdom of God. Fasting simply is the process in which we willfully and intentionally refrain from an activity such as eating in order to seek the Lord and to rely on Him more. While fasting in the Bible was primarily from food, principally we can fast through a variety of means. Ideally, we would ask if you are able to fast from food to do so. If that is not possible because of a specific circumstance or medical condition, seek to abstain from comforts that would provoke dependency upon the Lord and remind you of your hunger for His leading in this decision. In this abstinence, you should pray and meditate upon Scripture. At some time during the week leading up to our worship gathering on December 15, set aside a day for fasting with prayer and meditation on God’s Word. Fast for a full day or for a minimum of one meal. During mealtime, instead of eating, sit in prayer and “feast” on God’s Word. Consider using the following Scripture for meditation if needed (Ephesians 4:1-16; Colossians 3:12-17; Matthew 6:5-15; Matthew 9:35-38).

We will break this fast together with the Lord’s Table on the 15th and a provided meal after our Worship Gathering. We are so grateful for all that the Lord has done in and through our congregation and look forward to how He leads us into His plans.

For an explanation of the vote, please click the sample ballot below. If you will be unable to attend church and the congregational meeting on the 15th but would still like to vote, please contact one of the deacons to obtain a ballot or cast your vote. Thank you.

CLICK HERE: SAMPLE BALLOT

Click Here: Proposed Building Plans